So you want a Japanese Girlfriend do you?
MY NIPPON has a rather humerous posting on “How to Seduce a Japanese Woman”.
Frankly most of what is written there is complete rubbish and should not be listened to. But it is worth reading if your really curious about what people actually think. Click here for the full article.
Now it is possible that what is posted on the site is accurate in some cases. For instance here is a quote:
* Since Japanese women do not typically admit that they wanted ‘IT,’ you have to help them believe it by coordinating events in a manner that it sounds like a coincidence or an inevitable event rather than planned. Some of the tricks are: missing the last train, too much alcohol, carried away by an overflow of emotions, etc.
Although the above may be true in some cases, I’ve always had a problem with guys thinking that way. Never the less its a different point of view. And who knows maybe some of the tips there will work for you…
Beware the motives of anything or anyone who tries to guide you on the behaviour of vast numbers of people.
December 28th, 2006 at 12:32 amAgreed! For whatever reasons however it seems as though we Westerners always try and pin Japanese behaviour in small easy to explain boxes…
This couldn’t further from what should be done if one is to truly understand…
Like I said, complete rubbish…
December 28th, 2006 at 12:47 amYes, this is an interesting topic. Our “Looking for a Japanese Girlfriend” T-shirt has sold like hotcakes and it’s still near the top in sales every month.
http://www.jlist.com/SEARCH/shirt-gf1
December 28th, 2006 at 2:18 amHaven’t read the full thing, but that little bit there makes it sound like all Japanese women want to be in a sappy romantic drama.
December 28th, 2006 at 6:09 amThese tricks work great, though when you break up you have to do it on a bridge at night in the rain.
“Remember you have to make them feel that you want it rather than her!”
Am I reading that right? Isn’t this the worst possible advice to anyone trying to do anything?
“The areas that Japanese women believe to be most sensitive are neck, earlobes, thighs, and tongue. ”
Whoa, let me write that down. No wonder I haven’t had any luck with my ‘top of the feet, forehead, and elbow’ strategy.
“Use hypnotism.”
December 28th, 2006 at 8:02 amWTF?
That article is CRAP
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December 28th, 2006 at 10:22 amAgreed with Alex I do… That article is complete Crap. The only problem is… People really believe this non-sense…
December 28th, 2006 at 10:51 amAnd don’t forget, when trying to find that Japanese woman, try to speak in English as fast and with the least amount of pronounciation that you can. When they look confused, proceed to speak as slowly, and as loudly, and as condescendingly as you can to them. All foriegn women love that, really…:smile:
December 29th, 2006 at 8:05 pmEvery now and then I see your T-shirt on the subway in NYC, Peter, and every now and then some Japanese person giggles at it.
December 30th, 2006 at 7:26 am‘mynippon’ is nothing more than a cesspool of e-feces, don’t bother reading their website or any of their false generalization’s. The website is absolutely content-free.
Go to Japan, experience it firsthand.
Don’t listen to know-it-all ‘insider’ websites like ‘mynippon’, they exist only to confuse.
-Rant over.
November 19th, 2008 at 8:12 am